Book of Memories for Eric Valentine

Condolence From Mahendran R.

Sat, 16 Mar 2013 23:39:18 EDT

God bless you my friend. May peace reigns over you, eternally.

Condolence From Judy Pountney

Tue, 12 Mar 2013 14:32:07 EDT

A year has gone by since we lost our wonderful friend. I have thought of Eric and Elizabeth often, remembering our many emails and the pictures you often sent to me. I know Elizabeth has had a most difficult time with her loss as , without a doubt his family has, too. Please know that Eric lives on in the hearts and memories of the many friends and acguaintances who were lucky to have had Eric in their their lives. May God Bless.

Photo shared: best pic.jpg

Tue, 12 Mar 2013 09:18:56 EDT

Eric...you are missed so very much xo

Story shared: Support and Deep Caring

Tue, 12 Mar 2013 09:16:24 EDT

Remembering you today Eric, and the hours and hours you and I spent holding one another up in support, when we found our selves anticipating new beginnings in life, not knowing what direction either one of us would take. We talked for hours while I painted, and when I wasn't answering right away, you knew I was holding my breath while painting the tiniest details. You shared many stories of times in your life that were memorable, some sad, some funny. We tried to quit smoking too, and after I got the job done I sent you my Lifesign so you could try with the second round in the device. It was difficult...but you tried so hard. I've missed you, and the rekindled warmth you brought when you had a chance to re connect the dots between our hearts during the years since then. Craig and I remember you with great respect and honor. Your memory will always be a beautiful and warm one, and you will never be forgotten. You were such a loyal friend, and nothing or no one can ever take that from us. Rest in peace my dear friend. We will meet again...always in spirit, Love and Blessings, Laurie and Craig White.

Condolence From Mahendran R (Malaysia)

Sun, 25 Mar 2012 22:01:41 EDT

Dear Eric, Knowing is not necessarily meeting Meeting is not necessarily talking Talking is not necessarily with words Words are not necessarily be spoken. This mind, a wondrous enigma Playing a game so subtle and powerful Merges swiftly with things of joy Rejecting that which is painful. A friend unknown yet well known Through his writing so touching And the best that I liked most Is the one he wrote on ‘Life’s Carousel’. Though geographically distanced And we had never spoken nor met There is in me all the while a great respect I held for this man, b’coz despite the pain he wrote well. Down deep I feel he is a wonderful soul ever-lived Now he is gone, I am longing to see more of him Alas!! This journey in time, warrants an end Of everything that sprout and spread around. It may be a divine play and a past time my Lord But, we mortals hardly prepared to face this separation The law is made and all is done Oh Lord!! Please take care this friend of mine. One day will definitely come When I too shall shed this mortal coil And, my friend if the divine will permits We will meet in the misty eternity. Nothing ends though the body is gone Words written, thoughts enshrined Shall follow me closer than my shadow And at every turn I will always remember you. I pray that in the heavenly garden you find the solace With good care and love eternal embracing you all the time This eternal journey has no stop I believe every end is just another beginning. Take care my friend. God Bless you.

Photo shared: Eric

Sat, 24 Mar 2012 19:02:25 EDT

Photo shared: Love of Willow Park

Sat, 24 Mar 2012 19:01:22 EDT

Photo shared: Eric and Elizabeth

Sat, 24 Mar 2012 18:59:40 EDT

Photo shared: Better Times

Sat, 24 Mar 2012 18:58:29 EDT

Photo shared: Eric & Elizabeth 2010

Sat, 24 Mar 2012 15:04:26 EDT

Condolence From julie richmond

Sat, 24 Mar 2012 12:31:11 EDT

Dear Elizabeth, I never met Eric in real life, he was a cherished internet friend but even by this distant media I knew Eric was a compassionate and deep thinking man. He touched my heart with his comments many times and always gave such wise advice. Doing the family history research for him made me feel close to him and the rest of the family, which was a real privilege. I will never forget the day his dad's death certificate arrived and how I anguished over sending it to him. It was a pleasure to share a part in Eric's life journey. My thoughts are with you Elizabeth, I know he cherished you dearly. xx

Condolence From harry valentine

Sat, 24 Mar 2012 08:18:17 EDT

i dont know where to start,but this comes straight from the heart. i love you uncle eric and your allways in my thoughts, il miss the banter and the rollercoaster heartache that is supporting blackpool fc together with you im glad you saw us at the top flight again, like when you lot were the blackpool boys in the scratching sheds mortenson,mathews and of course jimmy armfield theyd be proud of your support over the years, il miss that. now you go to walk with mother and your brothers and i know you are complete il allways be happy for you and you live ever on every time i watch the pool you will be with me goodnight and god bless

Story shared: Eric's genius

Fri, 23 Mar 2012 19:08:36 EDT

Although we never had the honour of meeting Eric (Tankie) face-to-face, we were always eager to read some of his marvelous poetry & speak with him via email...what a talented & great person to be acqainted with! May you rest in peace my friend.

Condolence From George Navarro/Lighthouse Boy

Fri, 23 Mar 2012 02:34:36 EDT

Elizabeth, I am honoured that I got to meet Eric and yourself a few years back as we talked over Timmies coffee at your place. I have enjoyed meeting with various folks I know from the internet while on my travel. When I saw Eric and you, I knew immediately you two were such a happy couple that enjoyed each minute you had with each other. I am sorry that your dear soulmate Eric is no longer with you but remember folks like me got to see the love you two had for each other. I pray for strength for you during this time. George/LB

Condolence From Backcountry / Canoeguy

Thu, 22 Mar 2012 20:02:18 EDT

Though I never met Tankie, he was real for me in his stories on the forums. I always looked forward to his comments, and we shared some common background. We may have differed on some teams to root for, and other things, but his contributions were always interesting.

Condolence From Laurie and Craig White

Thu, 22 Mar 2012 18:48:57 EDT

Dear Elizabeth and Stephen...our deepest sympathy to you both. Eric was a man that will always be remembered for his soft and gentle spirit and his love for you his Son, and Elizabeth, the absolute love of his life. We too believe that without you Elizabeth, your love for one another, and your care, Eric wouldn't have lived as long as he did. Elizabeth, you and Eric were/are blessed to have experienced the oneness you shared. You are never alone, please know that. Stephen...bless your heart. Your dear Father loved you so. We are so proud to have known Eric...and our hearts go out to you both in profound sympathy. {{{{{Hug}}}}} May peace and comfort be yours. Love and Blessings Laurie and Craig White Singing Stream and Fog Hat Hilden, Nova Scotia.

Condolence From Stephen Valentine

Thu, 22 Mar 2012 14:04:26 EDT

I want to thank everyone who left such touching condolence messages, I have printed them up and will save them forever. God bless you all.

Condolence From Stephen Valentine

Thu, 22 Mar 2012 13:54:32 EDT

Dear Elizabeth: I just wanted to share some things with you from my heart. I remember the day dad and I came to Muskoka to pick you up and move you in with dad. I remember telling him he was crazy, how can you trust a woman that you meet on the internet. I didn't know you guys had been talking for two years. However, I got to see first hand how you loved and cared for my dad. I was able to relax because I saw that dad was in good hands. I believe that dad lived a lot longer because of your love and care. On the phone, dad often told me he didn't know how he would have survived without you. I have a lot of love and respect for you today. I believe dad loved you very much. I hope you find comfort in knowing this. I believe you were the best thing that happened to my dad in many years. I am praying the God bless you and comfort you during this difficult time. If there is anything I can ever do for you then please let me know. I will be eternally grateful for how you treated my dad. God bless you always. Love Steve

Condolence From Margie Kaplan

Thu, 22 Mar 2012 13:07:33 EDT

Dear Elizabeth I was just reading that beautiful poem that you shared and I remember that was the poem Eric wrote when his brother Ron passed away! It's perfect that you share it again. You are in my thoughts and prayers!

Condolence From The Kellners

Thu, 22 Mar 2012 12:05:52 EDT

Elizabeth. Our hearts & prayers follow you as you travel this new path in life. Know that you are thought of often and prayers are always offered up for you. Erics love for you was evident in all that he said and wrote. His words were always of you. You are such a strong lady and will do his memory proud. Know that we think of you and hope to continue to hear from you. Erics poetry and stories give us moments of smiles, giggles, and outright laughter. Even when he cheered for the opposing hockey team, he made us laugh. He had such a way of making many days so much brighter. He is not making our nighly heavens brighter with his new role as angel for you. Love & Hugs for you always Ed & Debby Cooke-Kellner (East coaster & Eastern Lady) Newport, Nova Scotia

Condolence From David Gourley

Thu, 22 Mar 2012 09:32:03 EDT

Elizabeth, my deepest condolences.Eric was a fine man, who had a great talent in poetry.He was also a Toronto Maple Leaf Fan, and there are none finer than that.God Bless you and Eric is at rest now.

Story shared: My Brother-in-law

Thu, 22 Mar 2012 08:36:53 EDT

Eric i have known you quite some years now, you were a gentleman in every way i know you were in i,ll health for some years but you used to say God willing i will see my Birthday and then the fall and Christmas but the master has taken you now rest in peace Eric with your dear mother and your two brothers never forgotten R.I.P.

Condolence From Mahendran

Thu, 22 Mar 2012 08:15:10 EDT

My deepest condolence to you. I am really not sure what to write and what to say. I have never met him, but I have always felt connected ¬with him through his writings and my admiration for him increases when I came to know about medical condition. I have always admired those who are able to endure the pains in life and go through it as if a stroll under the evening sun. I pray that Eric rest in peace and basks in the eternal love of God. I understand it is not easy, never going to be easy for you, but I believe with Divine Grace you will gain enough strength to go on with this life. There are people who always care to listen and share. Take care and God bless.

Condolence From Margie Kaplan

Thu, 22 Mar 2012 02:02:23 EDT

Elizabeth, I came back again to tell you how very much Eric's beautiful poetry touched my heart! It was always such a joy for me to read his wonderful poetry! And I send you my deepest and heartfelt condolence on Eric's passing.

Condolence From Sandi Chomyn

Thu, 22 Mar 2012 01:48:17 EDT

My deepest condolences to you, Eric's special person, Elizabeth. Eric has touch a lot of people with his poetry, myself included. He was a very special person that always went that extra mile. Yes he will live on in our hearts and memories.

Condolence From Margie Kaplan

Wed, 21 Mar 2012 22:45:46 EDT

Dear Elizabeth I am greatly saddened to hear of Eric's Passing. Thank you for letting me know about Eric's passing. He was a wonderful man and I know how your heart must be breaking as mine is! I never met Eric in person but he was my friend and always made me smile with his lovely comments on my blog! May Eric's memory always be a blessing! RIP dear friend!

Condolence From Stephanie Jones Good

Wed, 21 Mar 2012 22:07:05 EDT

Dear Elizabeth, My deepest sympathy for your loss of Eric. He will be missed greatly by many people he touched over the years. How difficult this must be for you, just know a lot of people will be thinking of you. He fought long and to survive his illness. He is now free of pain. Sending you comforting {{{{{hugs}}}}}.

Condolence From Deb Keyowski

Wed, 21 Mar 2012 21:49:14 EDT

Elizabeth. I was so saddened to hear of Eric's passing. I always got such enjoyment from his emails and was so blessed to have considered him as a friend. I can only imagine your grief but I want you to know how highly I thought of him and how much he will be missed. May God comfort you at this sad time. Deb.

Condolence From Judy Pountney

Wed, 21 Mar 2012 21:22:12 EDT

Dear Elizabeth, I am so very sorry for your loss. I know how difficult it was for Eric and for you at his side. He fought hard right to his last breath. Please take comfort in knowing that so many people are thinking of you and mourning the loss of Eric. He touched many lives and he will always be remembered. Loving hugs , Judy

Condolence From Linda Armstrong

Wed, 21 Mar 2012 21:10:47 EDT

Elizabeth You are on my mind in my heart and in my prayers as you go through this time of loss. Eric was lucky to have such a caring person to share his life with. If there is anything you need please let me know. Eric is now at peace his battle is over. It is time to take care of yourself. Love Linda

Condolence From Laurie-Ellen

Wed, 21 Mar 2012 18:40:52 EDT

My deepest sympathy for you Elizabeth. You fought valiantly hand in hand for many years to keep him here for those extra moments of laughter and joy. I will miss hearing his voice – especially if there is a Jay’s game on. Be strong and know you are not alone. Love, Laurie-Ellen

Photo shared: Valentine.jpg

Wed, 21 Mar 2012 09:32:22 EDT